What if our daughters were all taught of the sacred nature of their sexuality in the presence of high priestesses who carry the grace of maturity?  What if our sons were taught by women and men who understand the nature of the young male, teaching him to be more responsible for his own passions as well as holding the female in the light of reverence? There has been no education about these mysteries. There has only been porn and the back seats of cars. Until now.

I recently worked with a twenty-four year old student/client who was the vision of erotic innocence. She admitted to not having had sex yet, worried that she was missing out and should perhaps just do it anyway, like so many of her friends.  But something told her to wait until she knew what she was doing, until she knew more about her own body.  I praised her for following her intuition in the face of a lot of peer pressure to lose her virginity and “hook-up”.

Before I lay her back on the massage table, I invited her into my arms as we rocked and held one another. Hands placed consciously on the back of one anothers’ chakras at sacrum and heart, we eye gazed, breathing deeply until the nervous eye fluttering subsided and she relaxed. I then suggested we lower our eyes, place our foreheads together softly, and exchange wisdom of a feminine nature.  Sounds of AH toned along with our exhales, as a soft breeze caressed our bodies.

The session was a calling to the Priestess within me. I asked if she would like to have a deeper understanding of her inner sanctum, her cave of warmth, her garden of delights… her Yoni… her Sacred Space. I gave her the option of using the sacred name. I explained the meaning of Yoni as Sacred Space from the most ancient of all languages, Sanskrit. She loved that. 

I took great joy in holding her lovely, flawless young fingers, and using a vanilla-scented oil, I showed her on her own hand how I have learned to caress my own body, building energy in all of the chakras from the heart down. With intention and permission, I touched her with the same strokes while holding a clear boundary of integrity. I was not hired to arouse her, but to teach her, staying in the connection of mentor rather than lover. For that connection is what can help one learn to experience orgasmic pleasure to the heavens and beyond. Safety is the cocoon that must hold this mentoring in order for it to fully become integrated.

As a pioneer of this cutting-edge work of spiritual sexual education, I have the privilege of mentoring men and women into their own integrated sexuality. As the ripples spread, and more and more people are learning how to fully access and express their life force with integrity and respect, we are creating a new world. I invite you to explore our offerings-weekend workshops and weeklong trainings, as they continue to expand world-wide, and experience for yourself the magic of the weaving of the divine feminine and awakened masculine energies.

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